"As a dog returns to its vomit, so fools repeat their folly." (Proverbs 26:11)
Like snow in summer or rain in harvest, honour is not fitting for a fool. Like a fluttering sparrow or a darting swallow, an undeserved curse does not come to rest. Do not answer a fool according to his folly, or you yourself will be just like him. Answer a fool according to his folly, or he will be wise in his own eyes. As a dog returns to its vomit, so fools repeat their folly. Do you see a person wise in their own eyes? There is more hope for a fool than for them. Like a maniac shooting flaming arrows of death is one who deceives their neighbour and says, I was only joking. Where there is no wood, there the fire goes out; where there is no gossip, a quarrel dies down. Without wood a fire goes out; without a gossip a quarrel dies down.
The Catechism identifies the sin of detraction and gossip as the destruction of reputation and community that Proverbs consistently names as one of the most corrosive of social evils (CCC 2477).
Brothers and sisters, where there is no gossip, a quarrel dies down. The fire of conflict requires fuel, and gossip is the fuel most readily available. The single most effective community-building act is the decision to stop passing on the inflammatory word. Let the fire die for want of wood. Keep the gossip.
Lord God, make us people who let fires die for want of fuel. Keep our mouths from the gossip that keeps quarrels burning. Through Christ our Lord. Amen.