"Are God's consolations not enough for you, words spoken gently to you?" (Job 15:11)
Eliphaz begins his second cycle with reproach: should a wise man answer with empty notions or fill his belly with the hot east wind? You even undermine piety and hinder devotion to God. Your sin prompts your mouth; you adopt the tongue of the crafty. Are God's consolations not enough for you, words spoken gently to you? What do you know that we do not? The gray-haired and the aged are on our side. Are you the first man ever born? Were you brought forth before the hills? What have you heard that we have not heard? Then the standard argument in a new form: what is mankind that they could be pure? He recites the fate of the wicked: they are full of anguish, wandering from food, knowing destruction is at hand.
The Catechism notes that Eliphaz's second speech represents the hardening of a pastoral approach that began with genuine sympathy: when the sufferer does not accept the comforter's theology, the comforter often becomes an accuser (CCC 2447).
Brothers and sisters, Eliphaz began as a gentle comforter and is becoming an accuser. The pastoral helper who begins with sympathy and ends with accusation has let frustration replace the love that brought them. Stay a comforter even when your comfort is rejected. The rejection of your comfort does not make the sufferer guilty.
Lord God, keep your comforters from becoming accusers when their comfort is refused. Through Christ our Lord. Amen.