"Now be so kind as to look at me. Would I lie to your face?" (Job 6:28)
Job defends his lament: if only my anguish could be weighed and all my misery placed on the scales, it would surely outweigh the sand of the seas. The arrows of the Almighty are in me; his terror is marshalled against me. He turns to the friends: a despairing man should have the devotion of his friends even though he forsakes the fear of the Almighty. You have seen something dreadful and are afraid. Did I ask you for a gift? Teach me and I will be quiet; show me where I have been wrong. Honest words are painful, but your argument proves nothing. Now be so kind as to look at me. Would I lie to your face?
The Catechism identifies Job's appeal to be looked at honestly as the cry of the suffering person for genuine pastoral presence: not the averted gaze of the embarrassed friend but the direct attention of the one willing to be fully present to the other's pain (CCC 1500).
Brothers and sisters, look at me. Job's request is the most basic request of the suffering person: genuine attention, not therapeutic deflection. The person who avoids looking directly at suffering because it is uncomfortable has failed the fundamental pastoral test. Look. Be so kind as to look.
Lord God, teach your Church to look at suffering directly - at the face, at the wound - without flinching or deflecting. Through Christ our Lord. Amen.