Catholic Commentary on Song of Songs 8

"Place me like a seal over your heart, like a seal on your arm; for love is as strong as death, its jealousy unyielding as the grave." (Song of Songs 8:6)

Love Strong as Death

The bride speaks her longing: if only you were to me like a brother, then I could kiss you in public without being despised. I would bring you to my mother's house and give you spiced wine to drink. His left arm would be under my head and his right arm would embrace me. Then the great declaration of love's nature: place me like a seal over your heart, like a seal on your arm; for love is as strong as death, its jealousy unyielding as the grave. It burns like blazing fire, like a mighty flame. Many waters cannot quench love; rivers cannot sweep it away. If one were to give all the wealth of one's house for love, it would be utterly scorned. The brothers ask about their little sister. The beloved closes: I am a wall and my breasts are like towers. Thus I have become in his eyes like one bringing contentment.

The Catechism identifies love as strong as death as the supreme Old Testament declaration of the permanence and power of covenant love, which finds its ultimate expression in the love of Christ who is stronger than death itself (CCC 1611).

Living the Word

Brothers and sisters, love is as strong as death. The Song ends where Job ends: at the boundary of death, looking for the love that can cross it. The resurrection of Christ is the answer to both books - the Redeemer who lives, the Love that death cannot extinguish, the Bridegroom who comes through the grave to claim the bride. Many waters cannot quench this love. Rivers cannot sweep it away.

Prayer

Lord God, your love is as strong as death and stronger. Many waters have not quenched it. Seal it over our hearts. Through Christ our Lord. Amen.

8
Longing for Her Beloved
O that you were to me like a brother
who nursed at my mother’s breasts!
If I found you outdoors, I would kiss you,
and no one would despise me.
I would lead you and bring you
to the house of my mother who taught me.
I would give you spiced wine to drink,
the nectar of my pomegranates.
 
His left hand is under my head,
and his right arm embraces me.
O daughters of Jerusalem, I adjure you:
Do not arouse or awaken love
until the time is right.
The Friends
 
Who is this coming up from the wilderness,
leaning on her beloved?
The Bride
 
I roused you under the apple tree;
there your mother conceived you;
there she travailed and brought you forth.
 
Set me as a seal over your heart,
as a seal upon your arm.
For love is as strong as death,
its jealousy * 8:6 Or passion as unrelenting as Sheol.
Its sparks are fiery flames,
the fiercest blaze of all.
Mighty waters cannot quench love;
rivers cannot sweep it away.
If a man were to give all the wealth of his house for love,
his offer would be utterly scorned.
The Friends
 
We have a little sister,
and her breasts are not yet grown.
What shall we do for our sister
on the day she is spoken for?
If she is a wall,
we will build a tower of silver to protect her.
If she is a door,
we will enclose her with panels of cedar.
The Bride
 
10 I am a wall,
and my breasts are like towers.
So I have become in his eyes
like one who brings peace.
11 Solomon had a vineyard in Baal-hamon.
He leased it to the tenants.
For its fruit, each was to bring
a thousand shekels of silver. 8:11 Hebrew a thousand of silver; that is, approximately 25.1 pounds or 11.4 kilograms of silver
12 But my own vineyard is mine to give;
the thousand shekels are for you, O Solomon,
and two hundred are for those who tend its fruit.
The Bridegroom
 
13 You who dwell in the gardens,
my companions are listening for your voice.
Let me hear it!
The Bride
 
14 Come away, my beloved,
and be like a gazelle
or a young stag
on the mountains of spices.

*8:6 8:6 Or passion

8:11 8:11 Hebrew a thousand of silver; that is, approximately 25.1 pounds or 11.4 kilograms of silver