"See what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are!" (1 John 3:1)
See what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are! The world does not know us because it did not know him. Dear friends, now we are children of God, and what we will be has not yet been made known. But we know that when Christ appears, we shall be like him, for we shall see him as he is. Everyone who has this hope in him purifies themselves, just as he is pure. Everyone who sins breaks the law; sin is lawlessness. But the one who does what is right is righteous, just as he is righteous.
The Catechism cites the declaration that we shall be like him as the confirmation of the theology of theosis: the final state of the blessed is not merely fellowship with God but a likeness to God achieved by the direct vision of God, face to face (CCC 1023). The purity that John commends is the preparation for this vision, the progressive conformity to Christ that makes the face-to-face encounter possible.
We should love one another. Do not be like Cain, who murdered his brother. This is how we know what love is: Jesus Christ laid down his life for us. And we ought to lay down our lives for our brothers and sisters. If anyone has material possessions and sees a brother or sister in need but has no pity on them, how can the love of God be in that person? Dear children, let us not love with words or speech but with actions and in truth. This is how we know that we belong to the truth and how we set our hearts at rest in his presence: we love one another, and our hearts condemn us not, for God is greater than our hearts and knows everything.
Brothers and sisters, we are children of God. Not: we are trying to become worthy of that title. Not: we will be children of God if we perform well enough. We are. Now. The love lavished on us is not proportional to our response to it. It is lavished, poured out extravagantly, beyond what could be measured. Receive it today, not as something you will earn, but as what you already are: a child of the Father who lavishes his love.
Father, what great love you have lavished on us, that we should be called your children. And that is what we are. Purify us with the hope that we shall one day see Christ as he is and be like him. Let our love be in actions and in truth, not in words alone. Through Christ our Lord. Amen.